We all know there is one, and every one of us has one. A dark side. It is the place in our heads and hearts that we tap into when we our emotions are tied in knots. We hide in our little dark side and play with our nasty and twisted thoughts. Some hide their dark side from others. Others let it LASH OUT and snap its teeth at the world. Personally, a loose lid is what suits my dark side.
I have always embraced my dark side. I fed an nurtured it. For me it has always been a place to play and let my mind run wild without being judged or viewed as a freak. What would I look like as a vampire? What would life be like for her if she was no longer slender and beautiful? What if he was no longer able to utter hurtful words? The dark side had answers.
Your fangs would be long and white and your eyes would mesmerize every human that looked upon them. If all of a sudden she had one fat leg and a gigantic hairy wart between her eyes she would topple like a house of cards. If he coughed and gagged every time he was about to say nasty things, then barfed out a big juicy bull frog, he would no longer open his mouth with that intent. Answers.
The dark side is what fantastic movies and great books are made from. Witnessing another’s dark side spill out can be fascinating! Watching them take their own answers into the lab to create hellish places, heinous humans, and horrible creatures is quite frankly, comforting. The comfort is found in the discovery that you are not the only freak on a tweak.
When I crawl out from my dark side I feel lighter, and less burdened by the “norm”. The “norm” that tries to cram us all in to pretty little boxes of what it thinks we “should” be.
It is days like today, Halloween, that we are all free to celebrate our dark side. To pay homage to the answers the dark side has given us. To say thank you to the dark side for giving us a place to play. It is a festival of being anything your heart desires. Whether it be a bat or a buccaneer, a fairy or Frankenstein, there is no boundaries. Today we can have wings, fangs, tails, or a zippered mouth. The choice is yours. Today we are all free to just BE.